Keep Walking “I considered my options There was only one I knew There was always only one. To keep walking.” from Brave Enough by Cheryl Strayed So simple, yet so profound. Trapped in my royal blue funk, regretting, lamenting, mourning for all the things I can no longer do, I take comfort […]
Happy New’s Year Eve 40th Wedding Anniversary
Forty years ago on New Year’s Eve 1983, I said, “I do,” in a seventeenth century chapel in France, not far from the famous WWII Landing beaches. What are the odds of a small town girl from the cornfields of Illinois meeting a French boy raised by the sea in Normandy? Where else […]
Do It Yourself Home Projects so Fun (Not)
Between our old furniture falling apart after three years in storage and builders mistakes, each day in our new house brings a challenge. One morning, I opened the closet and the hanging rod broke, burying me under an avalanche of clothes. The next day the drawers collapsed, stripped from the support rail. Meanwhile, Gerald struggled […]
Living in a Construction Site Called Home
We officially moved a month ago, but we keep having to relocate within our walls. We continue to rotate tables, chairs, dishes, books and clothes from place to place, so builders can replace broken fixtures and access faucets covered by dry wall. Instead of looking for Waldo, the cartoon character hidden in a crowd of […]
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